We arrived at Childrens Medical Center at 7:30am today for a full day of pre-op activities. We started at the cardiology clinic with a sedated echocardiogram and an EKG. We were then sent downstairs to the outpatient lab. Caleb has always been stingy with giving blood, so I warned the tech. Caleb gave a little blood from his right arm and nothing from his left. I told the tech that we've had luck in the past getting blood from a vein in his foot, but she didn't feel comfortable trying that. We went back to the cardiology clinic and waited for someone from the hospital's IV team. She got the blood from his foot. Mama knows best!
We then met with the surgeon's NP and a NP from the cardiovascular intensive care unit (CVICU). They explained tomorrow's procedure. Leading up to all of this, I read all about the surgery online, watched Youtube videos of similar surgeries, and met with Caleb's surgeon. But none of that prepared me for hearing all the details of the surgery while staring at my precious boy and realizing that this is really happening tomorrow. Thank goodness there was a box of tissues in the room. I'm honestly not anxious or scared about the surgery, but it's still hard to hear about my son's chest being opened up and about all the tubes/wires he'll have in his perfect little body. I do know that Caleb is in good hands. More people than I even know in Oklahoma, Texas, and around the world (even Canada, Bahrain, & Belarus... according to the blog traffic stats!) are thinking and praying for our little man. This kid is loved and being prayed over by so many. Thank you all!
So anyway, I dried my tears and the day continued. The surgeon came to talk with us briefly, and then we took a lunch break at about 1:30. After a surprisingly good lunch in the hospital food court, we returned to the cardiology clinic for one last exam and pre-op instructions. His labs were back, and his thyroid levels were at a level that the medical team almost considered postponing surgery. After all the parties involved discussed Caleb's case, they decided to continue with surgery as scheduled. Good deal! I think there would have been even more tears if the surgery had been postponed at that point!
We finished off the day with a tour of the CVICU and cardiac floor, and then Caleb had to get a couple chest X-rays done. We left the hospital at about 4:45. Long day!
Once we got settled into the hotel, I hit the gym for a quick run on the treadmill and some cardio on the elliptical. Our parents arrived shortly thereafter. We have spent the evening visiting, watching the Thunder game, and snacking on all the wonderful food that our moms brought. It's a good thing I worked out earlier!
We have to be at the hospital at 6:00am Friday morning, and Caleb's surgery is scheduled for 7:30am. It should take 4-6 hours. Check back tomorrow for updates! And thanks again for all the prayers!
Thursday, January 31, 2013
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
Three month photos
Tammy Hall took Caleb's three month photos on Saturday. I love the photos of him wearing the crocheted beanie.
Two more days
Brad, Caleb and I are heading to Dallas this afternoon. Caleb has a full day of pre-op activities tomorrow, and then the surgery is scheduled for 7:30am on Friday. We've been told that the surgery should take about four hours.
Brad and I ask for your prayers as we prepare for Caleb's surgery. Please pray for Caleb's surgeon and his team. And please pray for travel safety for us and our family. As I mentioned, we will be going to Dallas later today. Our families are driving on Thursday and Friday.
My plan is to post periodic updates here, so check back for any new news. If you're on Twitter, you can follow Brad (BJohnson_72), me (SJohnson8108), and/or check #CalebDrew.
If you want to know more about Caleb's heart defect, check out the following websites. They can probably answer your questions better than me. But, of course, feel free to post any questions in the comments below. I'll do my best to answer them!
Stanford - AV Canal info
http://www.lpch.org/DiseaseHealthInfo/HealthLibrary/cardiac/avc.html
Cincinnati Childrens - AV Canal info
http://www.cincinnatichildrens.org/health/a/avsd/
Thanks so much for all the thoughts, prayers, and support. When Caleb was born three months and four days ago, we were told this surgery would happen in 3-6 months. It's hard to believe the time has finally come. We're thankful that the surgery is happening closer to the three month mark, rather than the six month mark. We're ready to get it behind us and move forward.
Brad and I ask for your prayers as we prepare for Caleb's surgery. Please pray for Caleb's surgeon and his team. And please pray for travel safety for us and our family. As I mentioned, we will be going to Dallas later today. Our families are driving on Thursday and Friday.
My plan is to post periodic updates here, so check back for any new news. If you're on Twitter, you can follow Brad (BJohnson_72), me (SJohnson8108), and/or check #CalebDrew.
If you want to know more about Caleb's heart defect, check out the following websites. They can probably answer your questions better than me. But, of course, feel free to post any questions in the comments below. I'll do my best to answer them!
Stanford - AV Canal info
http://www.lpch.org/DiseaseHealthInfo/HealthLibrary/cardiac/avc.html
Cincinnati Childrens - AV Canal info
http://www.cincinnatichildrens.org/health/a/avsd/
Thanks so much for all the thoughts, prayers, and support. When Caleb was born three months and four days ago, we were told this surgery would happen in 3-6 months. It's hard to believe the time has finally come. We're thankful that the surgery is happening closer to the three month mark, rather than the six month mark. We're ready to get it behind us and move forward.
Monday, January 28, 2013
Three month recap
Caleb celebrated his three month "birthday" on Saturday, Jan 26th.
Weight: 10lbs 10.5oz
Length: 22"
Clothing size: 0-3 months
Diaper size: size 1
Eating: Caleb takes 3oz of breast milk with one scoop of Similac formula, seven times per day. He takes anywhere from 10mL to 90mL from a bottle, and we give him the rest through his NG tube. We'll be glad when surgery is over, and we can be done with the tube.
Sleeping: Caleb sleeps 4 hour stretches at night, and we have to wake him to eat. He sleeps in his Rock & Play Sleeper in our room. He naps 30-60 minutes at a time throughout the day.
Highlight of the month: Caleb rolled over for the first time on Dec 31st! He has rolled over several times since then. Caleb is "talking" so much now! He and his friend, Peyton, carried on a long conversation a couple weeks ago. He "says" things that sound like "yeah", "oh", and "what".
Weight: 10lbs 10.5oz
Length: 22"
Clothing size: 0-3 months
Diaper size: size 1
Eating: Caleb takes 3oz of breast milk with one scoop of Similac formula, seven times per day. He takes anywhere from 10mL to 90mL from a bottle, and we give him the rest through his NG tube. We'll be glad when surgery is over, and we can be done with the tube.
Sleeping: Caleb sleeps 4 hour stretches at night, and we have to wake him to eat. He sleeps in his Rock & Play Sleeper in our room. He naps 30-60 minutes at a time throughout the day.
Highlight of the month: Caleb rolled over for the first time on Dec 31st! He has rolled over several times since then. Caleb is "talking" so much now! He and his friend, Peyton, carried on a long conversation a couple weeks ago. He "says" things that sound like "yeah", "oh", and "what".
Friday, January 25, 2013
Genetics Lottery
This is Brad. I'll be guest posting from time to time and this is my first. Sorry I'm getting started with such a long post.
The last 3 months has
been an amazing roller coaster of emotions.
Thursday was a good day. I’ll
explain in a minute, but first some background…
One of the many questions
(and trust me there were many questions) we asked the neonatologist after he explained
that he was “suspicious” of Down syndrome in Caleb was “What does this mean for
our future of having additional children?”
He explained to us that most likely Caleb received an extra 21st
chromosome spontaneously upon his conception, but there was also a chance that
the extra material was inherited (implying a higher probability of a future
child being born with Down syndrome as well).
Caleb had a FISH
test done while in the NICU and that test confirmed the doctor’s suspicions
that Caleb had 3 copies of the 21st chromosome. However, the detailed karyotype
test would take weeks to produce results.
In the weeks after his
birth we learned a lot about Down syndrome.
One thing that we learned is that Down syndrome occurs in one out of
every 700-1000 live births (statistics starting… more on this later). We also learned that the only known factor
that significantly increases a couples odds of having a child with Down
syndrome is advanced maternal age. Another thing that we learned is that the
karyotype test would tell us which of the three types of Down syndrome Caleb
had (we knew he didn’t have Mosaic based on the FISH test as all not a portion
of his tested cells reported 3 copies of the 21st chromosome). For Caleb it really doesn’t matter, but it
could for future kids. The three types
are:
o
Trisomy
21 (or nondisjunction) – Nondisjunction results in an embryo with three
copies of chromosome 21 instead of the usual two. Prior to or at conception, a
pair of 21st chromosomes in either the sperm or the egg fails to separate
resulting in the baby receiving three copies of the 21st chromosome. The three 21st chromosomes each
stand independently. As the embryo develops, the extra chromosome
is replicated in every cell of the body. This type of Down syndrome, which
accounts for 95% of cases, is called trisomy 21. It is never inherited. It just happens.
o
Mosaic
(or mosaicism) – Mosaicism occurs when nondisjunction of chromosome 21
takes place in only a portion of the cells in the body. When this occurs, some cells contain the usual
46 chromosomes and others contain 47. Those
cells with 47 chromosomes contain an extra chromosome 21. Mosaicism accounts for about 1% of all cases
of Down syndrome. It is believed that
people with this form of Down syndrome can achieve a higher level of function
and/or have less visible features, but that is largely unproven. This again is never inherited.
o
Translocation
- Translocation accounts for about 4% of all cases of Down syndrome. In translocation Down Syndrome there are three
copies of chromosome 21, just like in trisomy 21, but one of the chromosome 21’s
is attached to another chromosome, instead of being separate. The
extra chromosome 21 is frequently attached to a copy of the chromosome 13 or 14,
but sometimes it can be attached to 15, 22 or in some rarer cases, two #21
chromosomes can be attached to each other. The main point of a translocation is that the
total number of chromosomes in the cells remains 46. It just happens that one of the 46 is a combo
of sorts and has a little extra chromosome 21 tagging along. The presence of an extra part of chromosome 21
causes the characteristics of Down syndrome.
Because of its nature, this form of Down syndrome can be inherited if
either parent is a balanced carrier
of the translocation. However, the
translocation can also be “de novo” (or “occurring first in the child”). I can’t find any reliable stats on how
frequently translocation is inherited and how frequently it is “de novo”.
After Caleb came home, we
began reading online that there is a 1/100 chance of additional children being
born with Down syndrome, unless it was an inherited translocation. This made no sense to me, as a numbers
guy. If any event is spontaneous and
unique, how could it be more likely to occur again next time? I mean…flip a coin. 50/50 shot for heads right? So you get heads… still a 50/50 chance for
heads on the second flip, right? When we
later met with a genetics counselor, I asked this question and I found that
there is no real scientific reason for the increased risk nor a solid reason
for how much the risk is increased by.
The increased risk simply accounts for the fact that something didn’t go
right the first time and we don’t know why.
An implied inherent risk if you will.
Added simply because there could be something that we don’t understand working
behind all of this. Any auditor friends
out there probably understand this idea of implied risk or inherent risk. For example:
Maybe that coin has something wrong with it that we can’t see that
predisposes it to land on heads… probably not, but maybe… All of this to say that the risk is “probably
no higher next time, but maybe it is… so it’s accepted to just say 1%…”
We also read that if the
child has a translocation then either parent could be a balanced translocation
carrier and in that circumstance, the chromosome abnormality was
inherited. In that case, the odds
increased to 10-15% if the mother is the carrier and 3-5% if the father is the
carrier. Nice statistics, but as we
would later learn, not universally true for all translocations. There are more variables in play that make it
a little more complex.
So back to our
story… Steph and I asked a lot of
doctors what the odds of a family with two children with Down syndrome were and
the general consensus was that the odds are very small. This was reassuring. It seemed that most people assumed that Caleb
had the most common form: Trisomy 21.
And so did we. Until two weeks
ago when we Caleb’s karyotype came back and we learned that Caleb has a
translocation. Beating the statistical
odds again… The genetics counselor told
us the findings were “rather significant” and we should come back in to discuss
and also have a karyotype test done on each of us.
When we visited with the
genetics counselor, he told us that Caleb did not even have the typical
translocation, but rather he had the more rare version in which that extra 21st
chromosome is attached to another chromosome 21. It’s called translocation 21:21. Beating the stats again… Feel like I should
have bought a lottery ticket… So why is
that “rather significant” you ask?
Didn’t you just explain that if you were a carrier that the odds are
3-15% if either mom or dad was a balanced carrier? Well yes… except in this rare case. In this case, the “worst” case if you want
additional kids, if either of us was a carrier the odds are 50% miscarriage and
50% Down syndrome. Ugh. 100% of live births will have Down
syndrome. No if, ands, or buts. Why is this you ask? It’s not that complicated, but it is hard to
explain without pictures. It reminds me
a lot of high school biology. If you
really want to know, ask me and I will draw you a picture. Anyway, 100% is a big number. It’s pretty overwhelming to contemplate the
possibility that you were born with no genetic shot of having a typical
child. It was more overwhelming for me
than the actual diagnosis of Caleb. I
felt like I was stuck in the middle of a bad science fair project and a bad
science fiction novel.
So we did the lab work
and then we waited. We were told that it
was more likely than not that we were not carriers. At this point, I was tired of stats. I wanted facts. It took a long two weeks to get the results,
but Thursday we got the call that neither of us is a carrier. Good news.
Good day. Finally back on the
right side of the stats. Never thought
that I would be so happy to see 1/100 odds (implied inherent risk and all). Now, all of this is no promise we will have
another child or that this next child will be “typical”. That’s my assumption, but I’m learning not to
depend on stats and assumptions… you could always be that one.
So to summarize:
·
1/700 have down syndrome check
·
4% of those have translocation check
·
A fraction of those have translocation 21:21 check
Or look at it this way…
there are about 400,000 people in the United States living with Down
syndrome. About 4% of those, or 16,000,
have a translocation. A fraction of
those 16,000, have translocation 21:21.
Our little Caleb is pretty unique!
We won the genetics
lottery if you will. But we are happy today
that we know that Caleb was the start of the small odds and not either of us.
This lady in Europe does a good job of explaining it too if you want more info.
This lady in Europe does a good job of explaining it too if you want more info.
Caleb's newborn photos
Since Caleb spent his first ten days in the NICU, we had to hold off on having his newborn photos taken until he was home. Tammy Hall took Caleb's photos when he was sixteen days old, and here are some of my favorites.
Two month recap
Two month stats...
Weight: 9lbs 0oz
Length: 21"
Clothing size: newborn
Diaper size: newborn
Eating: Caleb takes 2.5oz of breast milk with half scoop of Similac formula, seven times per day
Sleeping: Caleb sleeps 4 hour stretches at night, and we have to wake him to eat. He sleeps in his Rock & Play Sleeper in our room. His daytime nap schedule is still pretty inconsistent, but he loves to nap on his tummy when we're home.
Highlight of the month: We had a wonderful time celebrating Caleb's first Christmas. He received so many toys, books, and clothes! His first Christmas was also a white Christmas! We took him out in the snow, but he wouldn't even wake up for a photo op!
Weight: 9lbs 0oz
Length: 21"
Clothing size: newborn
Diaper size: newborn
Eating: Caleb takes 2.5oz of breast milk with half scoop of Similac formula, seven times per day
Sleeping: Caleb sleeps 4 hour stretches at night, and we have to wake him to eat. He sleeps in his Rock & Play Sleeper in our room. His daytime nap schedule is still pretty inconsistent, but he loves to nap on his tummy when we're home.
Highlight of the month: We had a wonderful time celebrating Caleb's first Christmas. He received so many toys, books, and clothes! His first Christmas was also a white Christmas! We took him out in the snow, but he wouldn't even wake up for a photo op!
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